So I don’t think anybody cares that I didn’t blog last Monday because of my exams. And that is because today’s topic is very,very interesting!
The coming Saturday is Valentine’s day. A lot of preparations are being done for this all over the world. So, if I take into consideration all that happens in my daily life– love means taking people to cafés, restaurants , movies or gifting them expensive things. Love today also means changing your relationship status online or declaring it with an instagram or Facebook post. Love means being possessive. Love means physical lovemaking( most believe that romantic relationships can’t exist without this). Love means being best friends with the one who is loved. Love means manipulating the person to love you back. Love means suppressing your own desires and wishes to make way for the loved one’s own. Love means having someone to cater to your heart’s whims and fancies. Love means never forgetting that one special person. Love means a broken heart. Love means weeping tears of happiness as well as joy. Love means foolishness. Love means madness.
Okay, these are my observations. The information has been gathered from different sources. I know it would take forever so I am not writing all my observations. But I just feel that why is there such a hullabaloo about something that we should naturally be giving and getting ? I have never been in the kind of love which my generation is in . But I believe love is quietness. At least for me. There are different ways of loving someone. And for me , love is being in a state of madness–quietly. Loving that lucky one heart and soul and sacrificing more than even you can anticipate , but never letting the person know( not that they should never know !).Being that person’s biggest well wisher. Thinking of the person everyday of your life without knowing why. This, I believe, is the most romantic form this emotion can take. A simple form of affection which is true . Honest.
But what a dreamy, fantastic concept this is .Can people even love quietly? Forget loving others, can they bring themselves to love and respect their own selves?
All I want to say is that we all have our idea of love. But we may not find “our kind of love”. It’s just that we all have to find the source of unconditional love within us. And learn to love ourselves. And it is then that we can share it with someone else. Sorry for seeming like a butt hurt in this blog. You see, grapes are sour this Valentine’s day! Anyway, Happy Valentine’s day all 🙂